On the count of three, list three words that define masculinity.   Mine Today:  Hard-working.  Sexy.  Fixer and Repairer of All Things.

I think men and women often use the same words to describe what masculinity is, more than one would expect in this 21st century.  I am, admittedly, very interested in what a woman has to say about the current state of masculinity, but I think it's vital to get into a man's head and divine his thoughts on the matter.  I enjoyed reading Nate Martins NY Times piece, but eight years for a proposal?  I can't even.  And what's with all the white.  Is it symbolic of something?

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/09/22/style/modern-love-discovering-manhood-in-soapy-bubbles.html?rref=collection%2Fcolumn%2FModern%20Love&action=click&contentCollection=Style&module=Collection&region=Marginalia&src=me&version=column&pgtype=article

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