I won't say much, as I wish to keep my private life private, but this piece resonated with me. I have backed away from some friendships, as the required perfection of life's social media updates can be overwhelming when your daily life is punctuated with worry. The kind of worry to keeps you up at night, fruitless as the worrying is, knowing it's a worry that you will carry as one would carry a body part, the weight of it with you until you die. Who will take care of them once we die? Not everyone gets to be ok after their caregivers are gone.